Monday, November 29, 2010

Airi speaks.

Airi loves Avram. She calls him Appa which means Daddy in Korean and Avram answers her.
"Appa." "Airi." "Appa." "Airi." "Appa." ... . They're like a boyfriend and girlfriend. Unfortunately Airi also calls me Appa, but Avram answers for me. We hope that she'll learn the difference eventually.

Airi speak some words these days such as banana, mannma (means food), attsui (hot), oishii (tastes good), and pooh (of course, which is Winnie the Pooh).
She points to what she wants now. For example she likes to turn on/off switches, so she points to them. She also likes tissues to clean her table, so she points to them too.
When I say "hamigaki (brush your teeth), then she shows the gesture and she does it with her toothbrush and wipes.
I ask her if she pooped. Then she pats her tummy. It means time to change her diaper.
The best things she does are giving a hug and blowing a kiss. It's very sweet. It attracts people more and melts them.
She learns many things everyday. It's very interesting to see and talk with her.

She loves outside and people, so I will take her out when she wakes up from her nap.

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Vegetarian Restaurants in Waikiki, Hawaii

We usually enjoy ethnic or vegetarian food when we travel.

We found a good one in Hawaii, too.

RUFFAGE NATURAL FOODS
2443 Kuhio Ave.
Honolulu, HI 96815
Tel : 808-922-2042

Veggie Star Natural Foods
417 Nafua St.
Honolulu, HI 96815
Tel : 808-922-9568

They serve healthy sandwiches, smoothies, and selections of vegetarian & vegan foods.
You would like them :)

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Amazing!

Airi turned one on November 2nd. Last three months, she grew up very much.

In 1o month, she started to walk.
In 11 month, she climbed stairs and pushed her stroller by herself.

When she turned one year old last week, she started doing more things.
First, she brought her changing diaper sheet when she made a gift.
Second, she knows the differences between songs that I sing, so she changes her dances for each songs.
Third, she plays music by her toy and dances on purpose. Music first and then dance.
Fourth, Airi likes that I point a doll's eyes, nose, and mouth. Airi smiles and touches hers.
Fifth, I showed how to hug. Now she does for Avram, me, and the doll.
Sixth, she blows people kisses. It attracts more people better than only smiling.
Seventh, she likes to talk. Sounds like she talks not only words but also sentences with grammar. I can see she understands what I say and does what I said.
Eighth, Airi brushes her teeth with her fingers when I say "let's brush your teeth." She shows me how to do it before I do it for her.
Ninth, Airi eats regular food with us now. Not baby food for people without teeth.
Tenth, she sometimes gets some words from videos or conversations and follows the words.

She's amazing. She grows well everyday:D

Thursday, October 28, 2010

A floating gift

Airi doesn't like to sleep because she doesn't want to miss anything. She gets fussy only when she goes to bed.

She always has nice smiles for everyone. Even if it was a mannequin with out her head or no one in the room, she waves her hands with the smile. The smile attracts many people. They come to talk and touch her. I often think that I should bring a can to collect money.

Avram says, "We can tell people that they can pay us if they want to baby-sit for Airi." I can think about it now.

She follows words and actions when we teach them well, but I have never shown how to work in the bathroom. I wonder when she learns Japanese toilet style. (Look at Avram's profile picture of facebook.) She does it very well and it works very well.

Today I gave her a bath because she sweats a lot. She smells of people after gym. Also her sheets. Anyway she enjoyed the bath time and felt comfortable in the bath tub. I guess it was too good for her. I saw a floating gift in the water. I couldn't say anything from the shock, but I was happy because Airi was happy. I explained how it was like to Avram even though he said I don't have to do it. I want to share everything with him as parents:)

Airi and I are going out for a walk. She's done it, so I don't worry. Now she's ready for making people happy:)

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Airi in Hawaii

We're in Hawaii. It's her first state in the U.S.

She attracts people with her smiles and attitude everywhere. Many people stop walking and say she's cute. Some people say "she's the queen," or "be careful of kidnapping."

Avram and I enjoy raising her. We care what she eats a little bit. I try not to give her too much sugar and salt, but she drinks sea water so much. She loves playing in water, especially in the ocean.

I play with her all day. I think that I take care of her very well, but she farts to my face while sleeping. She's someone's daughter. Sigh.

Airi is Airi everywhere.

Monday, September 27, 2010

24/7

Airi is almost 11 months old.

She follows me everywhere. Just like her father. I can't go even to the bathroom.

She walks now. I'm busy for following her all day everyday.
Fortunately and unfortunately she is curious about everything, so she never relaxes for eating and sleeping. She doesn't want to miss anything. She keeps moving to figure out everything.
Milk just makes her hyper. She never stops moving for exploring when she gets it. It reminds me of Avram in mountains or the world.

She has some talents now. I can't wait for showing them to people.

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Miss Airi

Airi goes to a swimming class. There are only two people and a teacher there. Yes, only Airi and me:( It's a private lesson for two weeks.

Airi likes water, so I didn't worry about the class at all.

Life guards call Airi "Miss Airi."

At the beginning of the class, Miss Inna introduced three life guards and herself to Miss Airi and me. Then they showed some dances for fun and told us ten rules at the pool such as "Walk like turtles by the pool." They were smiling and nice to Miss Airi, but she was sometimes looking up at strings on a parasol.
They do this every class. I feel sorry for them, so I make Miss Airi dance with them. She pays more attention to them now. Sigh.

Airi is funny. When Inna says "kick your legs," then she just floats like a dead frog. When Inna says "float," then she kicks her legs. So Inna got Airi's signs.

Airi is getting used to Inna. Now she touches Inna's face and sometimes swims with Inna without me, though I am only one meter away.

Airi used to wipe her face when her face got wet, but now she doesn't do it so much. She can think what is next.
Now I can dip her into water. She doesn't scream and cry at all.

After swimming, Airi is full of water. I guess that's why she doesn't take milk much these days.
She eats food more than milk now.

Airi crawls, walks, and swims, so she's lighter and skinnier even though other people don't realize it.

The swim lesson makes her tired and take a nap well, so I got some time to write this.
I guess she's dreaming that she's swimming because she's kicking her legs with smiles.

Saturday, July 17, 2010

What Airi likes is... .

Airi's favorite things are ... ,

1 People She likes to talk to people.
2 Play room She likes to play with other babies.
3 Swimming Even if she drinks some pool water, she still smiles and enjoys staying in the water.
4 Being outside She likes to look at everything.
5 Couches and walls She likes to hold them to walk.
6 Books She listens to us when we read books well and she knows some stories.
7. Songs She thinks that people are talking to her when we read or sing for her.
8 Staying in a carrier She likes to feel us in the carrier.
9 Toys She doesn't play with toys much. She eats every tag on toys.
10 Strollers She stays there for a while, but not a long time.

I am happy that she enjoys contacting with people. She is very happy then.
She is like Avram. She can't stop exploring the world. She always moves like a monkey.
Avram speaks and reads in English. I speak and read in Japanese. Airi says "appa (it means father in Korean where she was born,)" and "up" in English. No Japanese yet:(
She likes real things and real world, so always likes being outside to see or likes to touch real things. We like it!

Someday we will show many animals and insects to her. I hope Avram will show how to touch them, but not me. Especially reptiles.

Friday, July 16, 2010

Airi went to a play room.

Airi is usually happy with everyone. She smiles to people and makes them happy. She gives her pretty smile even to an orangutan doll at the library and talks to him. The orangutan and she both looked happy.

Airi is happy everywhere if Avram or I are in a same room. Then she is comfortable to play by herself or with other people. But she doesn't like when other people hold her except us. I sometimes take her to my midwife office. While talking to the midwife, a woman holds Airi. Airi is a happy baby, but she suddenly cries loud when the woman holds her. She cries and cries to call me and finally other babies there cry. It sounds like frog harmonies, but it's louder than that. Airi is usually calm and happy, so this is the hardest Airi you can see.

Anyway, Avram and I think we should let her play with other babies more, so I took her to a play room the other day.
There are two women staff there. Every parent can take their children and let them play. You can meet other babies and their parents. It costs $2.50 for a day. You can come and go anytime all day.

Airi looked curious when we got there except while I was writing the registration paper. When one of the staff held her, she started to cry and everyone in the room looked at us. After that I got her and left her in the room. Airi was happy:D
Airi likes other babies. She is interested in them. She always tries to touch them and other babies get nervous and cry. Airi doesn't care it at all, still likes to touch. She was happy there.

When she played by herself, she liked to stand by herself. She used a small jungle gym and stood up by herself and looked around. She loved it.
When she plays with a toy, she usually throws the toy and crawls to get it. She does it again and again. At the play room, she did it.

I didn't feed her there because it should be hard for me. Airi likes to eat food. She is a good eater, but milk... , she likes to sit, stand, and crawl while eating. She uses the whole room to eat milk. Avram and I were talking we should hide everything and put her in an empty room. Otherwise she wouldn't finish milk forever.

The parents in the play room were surprised at Airi because she gave beautiful smiles to them and enjoyed standing and sitting a lot.

Everyday we see Airi grows well. It's very nice for her parents.
She is a big girl, so she will go to get a shot today.

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

We're a good team.

Airi works for Avram and me well this morning.

Airi pooped while I was cooking. Avram was happy to work for it. He looked very proud of himself. I was proud that he changed himself so fast:D

If you have a right partner, you can be happy forever. Even though the man and his daughter pass gas when they wake up or turn over. They're like harmony.

Time to cook good food for my daughter.

Monday, July 12, 2010

Team Work?

Avram and I have worked fine until yesterday.

I was pretty sure that Avram always puts Airi's legs up while I am changing her poop diaper. I asked if it's on purpose to him. He said it's a team work. Then why doesn't he take my part which you can see and smell it?

I told Avram that I heard some parents who changed their babies' poop diapers and others who didn't do it have different relationship when their children turns teenagers. He said he's in the middle. OK... .

I see that Airi is more comfortable with me it's because I am her mother and also I watch and understand her better than other people. Avram tries to spend more time with her now, so I see Airi is comfortable with him and trusts him.

We took Airi to swim last Saturday. Avram always waits and see what Airi wants to do and lets her do it. He respects what she does. I usually show what she can do and make her try. Avram and I are different type of teachers, but I like it. Both ways are important for Airi. We just want Airi to enjoy herself and have confidence whatever she does.

Anyway, I hope that Avram and I can trust and support each other AGAIN when we change her poop diapers. I hope that Airi work for him tonight and we'll work well as a team again.

Friday, July 9, 2010

"She is gorgeous!"

Airi is eight months old. She is a sweet and happy baby.

Everywhere we went in Australia, everyone who saw Airi said "She's gorgeous!"
Everywhere we go in Japan, people say she's cute and they come to poke Airi's cheeks.
Airi smiles to everyone. Her smiles attract more people.

Airi has four teeth and we see her third top and bottom teeth now. She likes to grind her teeth. The noise makes Avram and me uncomfortable.

Finally she crawls forward to eat her books and toys. She prefers standing and walking to crawling. She enjoys the higher view.

She has many expressions. You can see what she wants now. It's easy to tell when she's sleepy and hungry. She also shows she wants to play with you or she misses you. When she says "please," her eyes are more shiny.

She pulls cups or dishes when she wants more food. When she doesn't want it, she pushes it away. She makes raspberry noise for food she doesn't like to push it away from her mouth. She eats everything, but she makes raspberry for rice these days. It makes me unhappy :(

She is very curious. Even while walking outside, eating, and falling asleep. She is very busy to look around at everything, so it takes time to finish food and to make her sleep. But it's fun to see her expression and to hear her talk then.
One problem is that she doesn't blink at all when she's looking at someone or something. It scares people.

She can pronounce "p" sounds now. She says "appa" or "up." That's good because we call Avram "appa." Appa is father in Korean where Airi was born.

When Airi hears noise, she looks for Avram and me. When she see us, she gives us a big smile:D It always makes us happy.

Now we can't keep anything around her. She can reach everything now. It's good to see that she grows up, but I have to be more careful to watch her.

She is sleeping now. It's time to work for us.






Wednesday, June 23, 2010

AmerAsian School

AmerAsian School is a school that students who have American and Asian parents go to. They learn many things about both of their parent's countries. Then they realize that they sometimes learn different things about wars at American schools and Asian schools.
http://www.amerasianschool.com/Index_english.htm

I think every government wants to say they had to fight those wars and they were right. Then they make textbooks for children. Many children believe the textbook because they learn them at school.

When I travel or live in other Asian countries, I see what Japan did to people in those countries. I feel very bad and think Japanese people should see the truth too. If we need, we should apologize.

When I went to see the Pearl Harbour Museum in Hawaii, I was surprised. The thought about the war is different from the thought I learned. I know many families and friends cried and cried when they lost people they love in both countries.

I just can say every war is just sad, very sad. It makes people sad, mad, and unhappy. It should never happen any more.

Airi will learn many things in some other countries. I want her to see from many sides, not only one side of a country. It's hard to tell which country is right or not with wars.
I hope that any war will not happen in the future and our children can create a better world.

Monday, June 21, 2010

Avram's first father's day

Avram and Airi couldn't see each other for ten days because of his business trip. Avram worried if Airi remembers him, but she saw him on Skype everyday. Every time she saw him, she got excited.

Last Thursday, Airi and I got to his hotel in Australia. When Airi heard the door when Avram opened it, she was looking at it and smiling. Airi was so happy to see her father. Avram almost shed a tear. Airi also almost cried from hunger then. I'm kidding. She gave him beautiful smiles with happiness.

Every morning I hear something from Airi's butt, then from Avram's one. Airi, then Avram. They do it a few times when they wake up. The father and daughter talk with the noises and smells.

We went to Manly Beach on father's day. We took a nice walk. Avram always carries Airi on his belly for a long time. It is her best place to relax and sleep. They feel each other there everyday. I like to see it.

Avram couldn't wake up at midnight even for me when a bear almost attacked our tent, but now he wakes up for Airi. When she fusses, he at least put his hand on her belly and holds a bottle. It's a big progress. I'm impressed and moved. I almost shed a tear:)

Avram loves Airi very much and Airi loves him very much. They are a beautiful father and daughter.

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Airi's Trip to Australia

Airi was great for the trip to Australia.

She hadn't pooped for four days, so I worried if she will do it in the bus or airplane. After four days, the gift from formula milk in such a small room should be ... . It scared me. But she made it before the bus ride to Narita Airport. I was so happy and was able to love her more and more:)

Airi is curious about everything. She likes looking around at what's going on, what they are, and so on. In the bus, she was playing with my bag by herself and then fell asleep. In the airplane, she had milk during take off and fell asleep until I checked her diaper at 0:00. It was my fault:( Then she was so excited to look around at the lights, TV, and people. She was smiling even to sleeping people. Of course people who see Airi always say "she's a cute baby!" That night, Airi charmed flight attendants. They were very nice to us.

Anyway, she was HIGH from midnight to 5:00 a.m.. Thanks to her, I watched "Alice in Wonderland" with mute four times.

When we got our nice hotel, Airi and I couldn't stay up at all. She has slept since then until now. It's more than four hours. She is in a dream now. Lucky her.

I didn't worry about traveling with Airi by myself because she is a happy and calm baby. I was right. She has been very happy since we left home.

She recognizes her father. She loves to see him in Skype during his business trips. She just wonders why she can't touch her father like usual and why he's flat and cold on the screen. Seeing him soon would be a big surprise for her. She will head rock for the happiness.

It's cloudy here. Airi and I are waiting for Avram and exploring the town soon.
I will try to update about our trip. We'll see :D We could be very busy for fun. Then probably no time for the updates.

Good night. I'm going back to sleep with Airi.



Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Father Avram

Airi, Avram, and I have been great. We've been busy having fun with our guests since last March.

Airi grows up very fast. Now she has two teeth, turns over, eats food and so on.
It's fun to see that she's different everyday.

Avram loves Airi very much. He watches her, takes care of her, and entertains her. I'm happy when I hear Airi is laughing with Avram while I am busy at home. He tries to be a good father for Airi. He learns many things with Airi as a parent everyday.
I thought Avram is a boy before, but he's not. He is a wonderful father.

As many people know, Avram had a daily schedule like children such as going to bed at nine. Now a good father Avram follows Airi's schedule to understand her better. They go to bed at eight thirty now. Sigh. ... :) They both like to sleep on their bellies. They both snore and fart.
Airi is like a small Avram now. But it's very peaceful and beautiful to see them together.

Avram has loved Airi since I got pregnant. Now I can see Airi recognizes her father and sees with love.


Sunday, January 31, 2010

Cell Phones



Rie and I are in a new country, and the way these things work, we needed new cell phones. We just wanted basic cell phones for talking and texting, but I got drawn in by the free smart phone. I would have considered the iPhone, but they are tied to SoftBank in Japan. SoftBank does not have good service at Rie's mother's house. Only DoCoMo works down there, so that is where we went for our phones.

Rie and I walked about 30 minutes to our nearest DoCoMo shop and checked out the options. I liked the HT-03A phone, which is free with a two-year contract. In the U.S. it is called the myTouch 3G and its international name is the HTC Magic. It is an Android phone with a touch screen, wi-fi, GPS, Internet, and all sorts of other features and is a Google brand phone.

A few days later, we went back to the DoCoMo shop to get our new phones. The guy helping us did not seem to bright and nothing seemed to be easy. We both wanted the Google phone, but they only had one in stock. The phone comes in black or white. I wanted black, and Rie wanted white. The one in stock was white, so we decided to get Rie's and come back another day for mine.

DoCoMo has a 50+ page magazine with all of their data plans and options in it and we flipped back and forth for a while trying to figure out what we wanted. First, we get to choose how many minutes per month we need. Rie has more friends and family here, so she needs a medium level. Next, the guy explained the Internet usage choices. It is a sliding scale. Internet on the phone costs about $3 per month if you don't use it. The more you use, the more it costs until it plateaus at about $60 per month. We figured we could use it sparingly and not pay too much. We got some papers to sign and the fine print mentioned that the phone receives automatic updates for all of its options. These updates count towards its Internet usage. So, basically, without ever using the Internet, we will reach the maximum price every month.

So, after some more thought, we decided that Rie does not really want Internet. She found a nice pink phone for herself and I decided to take the white Google phone.

Next, the guy mentioned that phones don't come with call waiting or voice mail here. If we want those options, it costs about $5 more per month. We said okay, after which he sold us the extended warranty on the phones. That seemed like a good idea so we got that too.

Eventually, he mentioned that we could put Rie's family on a family plan and have free calls among all of us. That was free, but we did not have Rie's family's phone numbers with us to set it up then.

After 2 1/2 hours and about $30 for Rie's phone, we left with our two new phones.

The next day, Rie went back to add her family to the plan. Unfortunately, the guy forgot to mention that he has to call them to confirm. It was during the day and Rie's brother and mother were at work, so Rie was unable to add them to the plan then.

Two days later, we went back in the evening to add the family members. Also, my voice mail and call waiting were not working. Luckily, we got a different guy this time and he did not look at us like we were stupid every time we did not understand one of their crazy rules, policies or exceptions. He was nice enough to explain to me that the Google phone does not qualify for the reduced price bundle of call waiting and call forwarding. I have to pay about $4 per month for each of these services. An hour later, we were done for the fourth and final time.

There were so many added fees and exceptions and last minute changes, that I have no idea what our phone bill will be. I guess we will find out in a few weeks when it arrives.

In the meantime, I am enjoying my new phone immensely. It has all sorts of useless features like a level and a star chart. I can also surf the Internet and download all sorts of applications and games. It also takes video and pictures. I downloaded an application to read bar codes and search for the product on the Internet. Many advertisements in Japan include 2d bar codes for people who want more information.

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Growing up

Airi is almost three months old. Her neck stays straight for a long time and her cheeks are becoming heavier and heavier. She is so cute and is a peaceful baby.

When our daughter grows up, her parents grow up too. Especially her father.
Now Avram goes to bed around 11:00p.m. and he doesn't complain even if he can't eat at his meal time, so I can sleep late these days. Thanks to his friends in Korea, he learned and remembered that he can do them by himself.

We were kind of homeless when we married, but soon we will have a house, cell phone, and car. We feel like we're adults.

When Avram works, I see my friends from pre-school or high school. Avram has given me a good life since we married. Airi and we've been great in Japan too:)

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Can you do that?

Three years ago, Avram's girl friends showed me that you can slap your boyfriend or husband when they make fun of you.

Two years ago, Avram's father told me that I can tell what I want to eat and don't have to let Avram do what he wants.

Since last year, Wendy has taught what Avram needs to do for me at home. For example, he can let me take a nap when he's at home. Shopping is good for girls and so on.

I guess women in the U.S. have more rights than men:)

Our new rule

One day I watched a TV show. One comedian was talking about farting.

His wife often farts. It bothers him when he's tired, so he said she must pay $5 for one fart. When she farts, she has to pay $5. She tried not to fart for a few days, but she did eventually. He said she should give $5. After that she gave up to not try to fart. From then she calls him, "Come, come, come and look at this!" She is giving $5 and putting her butt to his face and farts.
Now the comedian saves 100,000 yen from her farts every month.

I told it to Avram. We liked the idea and try it now.
I used to make much money before. I made the most, but now we make almost same. We are good rivals.

When I passed a rose-smell gas, Avram said "It means that you're a part of our family." It made me feel comfortable and happy, but hopefully it won't happen so often.

Yes, I'm back or we are back with Airi and farts.

Monday, January 18, 2010

Goodbye Korea, Hello Japan

Well, as most of you probably already know, we have up and moved again.

Last Friday was my last day of work in Busan, South Korea. The movers took all of our stuff, we sold the car, and moved to a hotel near the beach. During the taxi ride back to the hotel, I got that warm feeling I remember from my 20s. That feeling of having no home, no car, no job. I love that free feeling, even if it will only last three days this time.

On Saturday, we took Airi on her first airplane ride. It was only about two hours, and except for a minute during the diaper change, she did not cry at all. Even the three hour bus ride to our new hotel did not bother her.

After the agent at the immigration counter stamped my passport, I thanked him in Korean. Rie's funny look reminded me that it is time to break my Korean thanking habit and start up my Japanese thanking habit again.

My new boss met us at the airport and helped us get settled in. He has been a great help and very welcoming. He bought food for us and his wife even baked for us. I think we are going to enjoy our three years here.

Tomorrow, I start my new job in Japan, but it won't be too hard yet. We will spend about three weeks doing paperwork and taking orientation classes before I actually go to my new office. In the mean time, we will look for a place to live and a car to buy.

Friday, January 15, 2010

Our goodbye party


We met good people and had a great time with them in Busan. Our friends and Avram's coworkers held a party for us before we left Korea.

Chris and Carol are very nice people. They always think of others. We learn how to entertain and how to involve other people to happiness. We like they take their children to many places to show the world. We'll try to do it for Airi.

Wendy told me many things as a mother and wife. She sometimes gave Avram lectures what he can do for me at home. It worked well. I should call her when I need her help.

Kemmeh who loves Airi's cheeks often gave me good advice with baby stuff. She also encouraged me with shopping for Airi. Now Avram sometimes asks me what I need for raising Airi, not for my fashion:(

Gyong Ah,Young Joo, and Kyung helped us a lot. We were very happy that we had good Korean friends. It made our life in Korea much better.

People in the party and some other friends who couldn't come think of us well, so Avram, Airi, and I were always happy in Korea. We were very lucky to have those nice friends and coworkers. We hope we can keep in touch with them wherever we are in the world.

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Shinsegae


We had a bit of a warm day last Saturday and decided to take a walk. I strapped Airi on and we strolled along Gwangan Beach all the way to Shinsegae, the world's largest department store. It was a good two hour walk for all of us. Rie likes Shinsegae because they have a great baby lounge. There is one room full of changing tables, another room for washing up and a third room for breast feeding. Airi ate and I got to play a game in the arcade. After dinner and ice cream and shopping for the adults, we fed and changed Airi again before taking a taxi home. It was a fun Saturday afternoon/evening for all of us.

Friday, January 1, 2010

Airi Turns Two

Happy New Year!!!

Here in Korea, when you tell how old you are, you count the time in your mother's belly. So, when a baby is born, she is already one. Rather than keeping track of people's individual birthdays, everybody adds a year on New Year's Day. So, Airi was one on November 2nd and just turned two today. Time sure is passing quickly.

By the same reckoning, my Korean age is 40, even though my western age is barely 38.